Top 10 myths debunked for your wedding party
16/12/2024 09:00 | Inspiration
When you think of wedding parties, what comes to mind first? You may think of certain clichés that are not actually true or do not necessarily have to be true – myths, in other words. We thought it was high time to debunk them! In this article, you'll read ten things that people often think about wedding parties, when in fact they are just myths or prejudices, and not absolute truths.
Photo (above): Wedding Planner: Planned 4 You - Photographer: Charlotte Reynaert
1. More expensive equals better
Your wedding day is all about the precious moments that will stay with you forever – how you arrange them is entirely up to you. So your wedding doesn't have to look like those of the celebrities you see online. Granted, with a larger budget, you can often create a very impressive setting, with lavish flower ceilings and flower walls, for example. However, with smart choices and a focus on what is most important to you, you can also create a beautiful result. For example, focus on a few eye-catchers, such as a flower arch and a few large (or minimalist!) flower arrangements in your venue.
Furthermore, the highest quote does not automatically mean the best choice. There are other important criteria for choosing your wedding suppliers, such as style, capacity, quality, personal preference, a connection with you, availability, and so on.
2. A wedding requires an extensive sit-down dinner
The idea that a wedding isn't complete without an elegant five-course menu is outdated. While seated dinners are still popular, in recent years walking dinners, barbecue buffets and food trucks with street food have also been gaining popularity. The most important thing is that the catering is totally your thing! Many caterers offer a wide range of options and will be happy to discuss all the options with you.
3. DIY is cheaper
There's no doubt that do-it-yourself projects are creative and personal. However, the idea that they always save you money is a misconception. In some cases, homemade decorations and details can actually end up costing you more, as you need specific materials and tools. What's more, it can take up a lot of time that you might prefer to spend on something else while planning your wedding. Working with suppliers who already have all the necessary materials and experience is more efficient and can save you money. So think carefully about what you really want to do yourself – and what you're better off leaving to the professionals for a stress-free wedding!
4. Bridesmaids must match
The concept of bridesmaids wearing identical dresses at a wedding party is certainly familiar to you, and can also be very nice! However, if you are not a fan of this, you do not have to choose it. It can be really cool to have each bridesmaid wear something different, either within a certain guideline—such as the different colours of the sunset, autumn colours or bright colours—or by giving them complete freedom in their choice for a fun mix and match effect. Would you still prefer some form of uniformity? Agree on a colour palette and let your bridesmaids choose their own outfits within this palette. That way, everyone will shine in their favourite outfit!
5. Wedding traditions are there to be honoured
When you think of a wedding, images of getting married in a church, the father giving away the bride, throwing rice and waving napkins to “Les Lacs du Connemara” may come to mind. These are just a few examples of traditions that some people still consider the “norm” for a wedding party. Don't let yourself be influenced by the myth that you have to uphold these traditions at all costs. Instead, plan your wedding exactly the way you want it. Do you like to get ready together on the morning of your wedding day? How romantic! Would you like to go on a honeymoon with your friends or family? You can! Discuss with your partner what your dream wedding looks like. If it doesn't follow any (or all) traditions, that's perfectly fine!
6. The bride always wears a white dress
The bride in a white dress is an old tradition dating back to Victorian times. The colour white symbolised the “purity” of the bride. Although the choice of a white wedding dress is still very popular, we are seeing an evolution in bridal fashion. In recent years, brides have increasingly embraced diverse styles, from jumpsuits and mini dresses to colourful dresses and elegant suits. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident on your big day. Did you know that many modern wedding dresses are not actually completely white, but are finished with light pink or cream-coloured tulle or silk?
7. A diamond engagement ring is a must
Diamonds are a girl's best friend. But is that always true? While diamonds are certainly a fantastic choice for an engagement ring, the most important thing is that the ring suits the style of the wearer and your love story. Would you prefer a sparkling sapphire or a vibrant ruby? You do you! After all, it's about your love and what the ring symbolises.
8. The groom proposes
Times are changing! And so are the traditional gender roles in marriage proposals between men and women. More and more women are taking the initiative in popping the question, rather than waiting to be asked. So it certainly doesn't have to be the man who proposes!
9. The best age to get married is between 28 and 32
This myth is perhaps the most bizarre. Don't let the idea of “the perfect age” to get married put pressure on you! Every individual and every relationship has its own timing; couples marry at different ages. So there is no one-size-fits-all age to get married. The most important thing is that you and your partner are completely ready to embark on this journey together.
10. Everyone will love your wedding
Of course, you want to organise a beautiful wedding that you and your guests will thoroughly enjoy. However, don't forget that tastes differ, and that your dream wedding is not everyone's dream wedding. It's impossible to please everyone, and that's perfectly okay! What matters is that you and your partner have a wonderful day that is meaningful to you. So don't worry if you can't meet everyone's expectations. When planning your wedding, you have to make decisions. As long as you choose what you and your partner want most, you are sure to make the right choice!
Read more about this topic via these links...