1. Determine the type of proposal
First, decide what kind of proposal fits your relationship. Do you prefer to keep it formal and traditional, or rather playful and original? Think about what your partner would enjoy most, and make the right choice based on that.
2. Buy the engagement ring
The engagement ring is an important part of your proposal. Choose a ring that matches your partner’s style and reflects your love. Maybe your partner has already dropped hints about what kind of ring they like? Or perhaps they have a (secret) Pinterest board with photos of engagement rings? Do some research, then head to one of these jewelers, who will be happy to help you choose the right ring.
3. Choose the perfect location
Pick a romantic location for your Valentine’s Day proposal—somewhere you share beautiful memories together. The place of your first date, for example. What sounds like “truly you”? Here are a few ideas to get you started:
A romantic dinner date at a restaurant;
A homemade dinner at home;
A winter walk in a beautiful forest or park;
On the beach at sunset;
On a trip with a breathtaking view;
A hot air balloon ride or another romantic activity;
Cozy together on the couch;
And so on!
Valentine’s Day is a popular holiday, so plan ahead. Make your restaurant reservation early or book activities well before the day itself.
4. Keep it secret
Keeping your proposal secret is crucial for the surprise element… If you need help planning, involve your closest friends or family. But the fewer people who know about your secret plan, the better.
5. Plan the details
Think about what you’re going to say, what music will be playing, and what the setting will look like. Maybe you can write a heartfelt letter or buy an extra thoughtful little gift? And consider having candles and a nice bottle of wine—or champagne—ready so you can celebrate your big news together right away!
Prefer not to plan too much in advance? Then just keep it nicely spontaneous!
6. Practice your proposal
Practice your Valentine’s Day proposal so you feel confident and can do everything without nerves at le moment suprême. Do you know exactly when you’ll get down on one knee, how you’ll present the ring, and which finger you should slide it onto? Think ahead about what you’re going to say and do.
7. Stay calm
It’s normal to feel nervous on the day of the proposal, but try to stay calm… so your partner doesn’t suspect anything! Enjoy the moment, and show your partner that he or she is unique.
In short: choose a Valentine’s Day proposal that suits your relationship and shows your love and appreciation for your partner. However you decide to propose, the most important thing is that you create an unforgettable moment with the person you love and that you take a big next step in your relationship together. Congratulations—enjoy it, and enjoy each other!
Good luck!


