Photo (above): Jeweler: Sofie Vanheukelom - Photographer: LUX Visual Storytellers
1. Contact your jeweler (or their webshop)
If you want to find the perfect engagement ring, it’s important to discuss your wishes and budget thoroughly with a jeweler. By sending an email or visiting the jeweler, you can talk about the style and details of the ring you’re looking for. Your jeweler will welcome you with open arms and, above all, listen carefully—so they can get a clearer picture of your partner and find the perfect engagement ring that suits her or him.
New trend: the jeweler at home! If you prefer a personal approach, you can now opt for a jeweler who visits you at home.
2. Find the perfect engagement ring with Pinterest inspiration!
Good communication with your jeweler is essential to finding the perfect engagement ring for your loved one. Sharing as much information as possible—such as a photo of your partner or a mood board via Pinterest—can help your jeweler better understand your vision for the perfect engagement ring. Social networks like Pinterest make it possible to communicate visually about the style you want, making it easier to find a ring that suits him or her. If you don’t know where to start, feel free to take a look at our Pinterest for inspiration!

3. Make a brilliant choice with diamond jewellery advisors
After discussing your wishes with the jeweler, they will present you with a selection of stunning designs. You can ask questions about the center stone, shape, color, and price range. Based on your input, the jeweler will show models that match the picture you have in mind. Often, several rings are shown, after which the jeweler will ultimately point out two possible final options. At Baunat, their diamond jewellery advisors provide personalized expert advice when choosing your ring, so you can be sure you’ll find the perfect engagement ring for your loved one!
4. Is my perfect engagement ring gold, silver, or platinum?
When choosing the perfect engagement ring, it’s important to consider the material carefully, since the ring will be worn every day. If your partner has a job where they frequently come into contact with hard materials—for example someone who sells kitchens and works with granite countertops, or someone in the textile industry who handles metal clothing racks—it’s recommended to choose platinum rather than gold or silver. Platinum has the same look as gold, but is more resistant to scratches and wear. This way, you can be sure the ring will stay beautiful, even with heavy use.

5. Take your time
The timing of visiting the jeweler for the perfect engagement ring can vary from person to person. Some plan their proposal months in advance, while others choose the jewelry on the day itself. But if you want to get the most out of your search, it’s ideal to visit the jeweler about six weeks before popping the question. That way, you’ll still have plenty of time to choose a unique design or even a custom-made ring that perfectly suits your loved one.
6. The right ring size for the perfect engagement ring
Some people try to sneak a ring from their loved one behind their back to find out the ring size. But since you can’t always be 100% sure you’ve got the exact right size, some jewelers offer a service where the piece is perfectly adjusted to your fiancée’s finger within five days, at no extra cost. That way, you don’t have to worry about the ring fitting perfectly.

7. Trust your choice
After going through all the steps, the question remains: how do you know you’ve chosen the perfect engagement ring? Sometimes a friend or mother-in-law comes along to the jeweler to help you decide. Do keep in mind that the more people involved in making the choice, the harder it can be to make an effective decision. But rest assured—your gut feeling is usually right. After all, you know your partner best!
Read more about this topic via these links...
- The engagement ring of your dreams? Here’s how to get it!
- How to show off your engagement ring on social media
- Ring finger in the picture! – Q&A
- A modern wedding ring around your finger
- How to personalize your wedding ring!
- Classic engagement rings with a guaranteed ‘I Do!’ effect
- In the spotlight: the engagement ring with diamond
- Historical engagement rings at a glance


